Free Starter Guide · PerfectMatch · EvaTalk

Your Inner
Wounds

The free starter guide to spot your core wound — and take the first step.

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Free · 7 pages · by EvaTalk

First things first

What sets you off today often has an old root

Most of our painful reactions — the fear of being left, the feeling of never being good enough, the anger of not being seen — don't come from nowhere. They take root in inner wounds formed early: abandonment, rejection, betrayal, injustice, low self-worth.

The good news: a wound isn't a life sentence. Understood and worked through — with psychology — it can be transformed. This starter guide helps you spot your core wound and know where to begin.

How to use it
Read the 5 wounds, take the mini-test below, then check your starting point. No judgment, at your own pace.
Step 1The 5 inner wounds

Abandonment

The fear of being left or neglected. You cling, or you dread being alone enough to do anything to avoid it.

Rejection

The sense of not having a place, of being "too much." You shrink, you fear judgment if you truly show yourself.

Low self-worth ("not enough")

The feeling of never measuring up, whatever you do. You self-criticize, you doubt your worth.

Betrayal / trust

Hard to trust. You control, or you protect yourself by keeping your distance.

Injustice / invisibility

The pain of not being seen, recognized, treated fairly. Anger, hypervigilance, exhaustion.

Step 2The mini-test

Check the statements that resonate most. The group with the most checks = your core wound (most of us have one or two).

Check what speaks to you

A · Abandonment

R · Rejection

E · Low self-worth ("not enough")

T · Betrayal / trust

I · Injustice / invisibility

My core wound: (the letter you checked most)

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Step 3Your starting point

Based on your core wound, here are the guides to start with:

Abandonment

Rejection

Low self-worth ("not enough")

Betrayal / trust

Injustice / invisibility

And for everyone

To quiet the mind while you work on the root.

The method

How a wound is transformed

Each guide works your wound through 4 complementary lenses:

1.
Psychodynamic— understand the root of the wound.
2.
CBT— spot and ease the negative thoughts and schemas.
3.
Humanistic— reconcile with yourself, gently.
4.
Systemic— act on your environment and relationships.

Each guide · €9.99

4 psychology approaches + guided exercises + an 11-page workbook to fill in. Instant access, at your own pace.

“Your wounds don't define you. Understood, they become your strength.”

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A free psychoeducation starter guide — not a substitute for therapy.
If you are going through a hard time, please reach out to a professional or a crisis line in your country.